❌ Error #1: You're stuck in passive learning!
You spend hours listening to podcasts, watching series, or doing exercises on apps. This is what's called passive learning: you receive information, but you don't actively use it. And the problem is, language is meant to be lived, spoken, and practiced!
You might know the theory by heart – past tense conjugations, subjunctive rules – but if you never practice using them in conversation, you'll feel stuck when it's time to speak. It's like reading books about swimming... without ever jumping into the water.
You need to switch to active learning, which means getting into the habit of using French regularly, speaking, asking questions, experimenting with the vocabulary and structures you're learning. In short, stop just listening and reading, and start taking action: speak up, make mistakes, correct yourself, and try again. That’s how you’ll improve!
How to practice speaking French when you're not confident and afraid to talk with natives?
You dream of speaking French fluently, but as soon as you have to open your mouth... panic sets in? Don't worry, you're not alone. Many people are afraid to talk with natives for fear of making mistakes or being judged. But let me share a solution that can truly change everything for you.
With Ohlala French Coffee, my French conversation group, you can practice your French in a supportive and pressure-free environment. The concept is simple: small conversation groups guided by certified native teachers. You get time to speak, ask questions, and most importantly, you receive corrections at the end of each session to improve quickly.
And I have great news for you: you can try it for free for 7 days, no commitment. Yes, you heard that right! It’s the perfect opportunity to get started, test the method, and see if it suits you. If it’s not for you, no worries, you can stop at any time.
❌ Error #2: You speak too fast!
Let me share a little personal story. When I moved to an English-speaking country for the first time, I still remember my first conversations with natives... and honestly, it was a total disaster. I was so stressed that I spoke way too fast, as if I wanted to get rid of every sentence as quickly as possible. The result? No one understood what I was saying, and the more I saw their confused looks, the more I panicked.
One day, a very kind person said to me: “Take your time, it’s okay.” And that’s when I understood... I needed to relax, slow down, and above all, take the time to pronounce each word clearly. It changed everything! People finally understood me when I spoke English.
Why is speaking slowly essential in French?
In French, as in all languages, clarity trumps speed. If you speak too fast:
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Your pronunciation becomes unclear, and natives will struggle to understand you.
- You might stumble or forget words, which increases your stress.
- And most importantly, you don’t give yourself time to think about what you want to say.
Many people think they need to speak fast in French because natives speak quickly, but that’s a mistake!
In reality, the French don’t speak that fast. What gives that impression is that they often shorten words and use contractions in their speech. For example, instead of saying "Tu as vu ?", they might say "T’as vu ?" or even "T’as vu ça ?".
It’s not about speed, but rather about the elision and flow specific to spoken French. If you really want to understand and imitate natives without rushing, I explain all this in detail in my free eBook "Maîtriser le français parlé". Download it to discover these little secrets that will make all the difference in your conversations!
My tips for slowing down and communicating better
1️⃣ Take a deep breath before speaking 🧘
Stress makes you speed up. Before starting a sentence, take a deep breath and remind yourself that you have the right to take your time.
2️⃣ Break your sentences into chunks ✂️
Instead of trying to say everything at once, speak in blocks.
For example, instead of saying: "Demain je vais au marché acheter des fruits et ensuite je vais chez le boulanger."
Try: "Demain, je vais au marché. Je vais acheter des fruits. Ensuite, je vais chez le boulanger."
3️⃣ Enunciate each word clearly 🗣️
Even if it feels exaggerated, make it a habit to articulate. French has specific sounds, and pronouncing words clearly helps your listener understand you more easily.
4️⃣ Practice with short sentences 📝
If you tend to speed up, practice with simple, concise sentences. This will help you focus on pronunciation rather than complex structures.
5️⃣ Observe native speakers 👀
Watch how French people speak in videos or series. They don’t always speak quickly! Sometimes they slow down to emphasize an idea or articulate a difficult word. Take inspiration from their rhythm.
🎁 Bonus Tip: The Dramatic Pause
When you feel like you're losing track or getting stressed, take a brief pause. A 2-second silence might feel long to you, but it gives the impression that you're thinking about what to say. It also shows that you’re calm and confident.
Rushing is the fastest way to get lost. But by taking your time, articulating, and speaking at a relaxed pace, you’ll not only be better understood but also feel much more confident in your French conversations.
❌ Error #3: You’re afraid of making mistakes!
You hesitate to speak French because you're afraid of saying something wrong, making a grammar mistake, or using an expression at the wrong time? This fear is something I’ve seen in almost every learner. But let me tell you something: this fear is your worst enemy. It blocks you, prevents you from progressing, and, worse yet, makes you miss out on incredible opportunities to improve your French.
💡 Why is this fear unnecessary?
1️⃣ Mistakes are part of learning:
No one becomes bilingual without making mistakes. Even natives make mistakes (yes, really!), and it doesn’t stop them from communicating. Every mistake is an opportunity to learn and improve.
2️⃣ The French appreciate your effort:
Most natives admire that you’re trying to speak their language. They don’t focus on your mistakes; they focus on the effort you’re making to communicate.
3️⃣ You miss out on practice:
By avoiding speaking out of fear of mistakes, you drastically reduce your exposure to the language. And it’s through speaking that you gain confidence and fluency.
🚀 How to overcome the fear of making mistakes?
1️⃣ Change your mindset:
Instead of seeing a mistake as a failure, view it as a necessary step to progress. The more mistakes you make, the more you learn.
2️⃣ Practice in a supportive environment:
Join conversation groups where everyone is there to learn, like Ohlala French Coffee. With small groups and native teachers, you can speak without pressure and receive kind corrections.
3️⃣ Take linguistic risks:
Dare to use a word or expression, even if you’re not sure it’s correct. If it’s wrong, someone will correct you, and you’ll better remember the right version.
4️⃣ Note your mistakes to improve:
Every time you make a mistake and get corrected, write down the error and the correction. Review these notes regularly to avoid repeating the same mistakes.
5️⃣ Remember that everyone goes through this:
Even the most talented people made mistakes at the beginning. No one will judge you for it, and those learning a language understand this very well.
🎁 Bonus Tip: Turn your mistakes into a game
To make your mistakes less stressful, see them as a challenge: every corrected mistake earns you an experience point! Turn your learning into an adventure where every correction brings you closer to your goal.
Remember this: if you don’t make mistakes, you’re not learning. Speaking a language isn’t about being perfect, it’s about communicating. So, go ahead, make mistakes, and let them guide you to more fluent and natural French.
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❌ Error #4: You’re too attached to your native language
When learning a new language like French, it’s natural to refer to your native language to construct sentences or find words. But be careful, being too attached to your native language can hold you back. Why? Because the structures, expressions, and even ways of thinking often differ from one language to another. The result: your sentences might sound strange or, worse, be incomprehensible.
💡 Why is this problematic?
1️⃣ Word-for-word translations don’t always work:
Each language has its own rules and idiomatic expressions. For example, in French, you don’t say "Je suis excité(e)" (“I’m excited”), because it has a sexual connotation in French. Word-for-word translations might sometimes work, but they can often lead to confusion or misunderstandings.
2️⃣ You risk getting stuck in a conversation:
If you mentally translate everything you want to say, it slows down your thought process. Meanwhile, your conversation partner is left waiting, and the flow of the conversation slows down.
3️⃣ Natives find it unnatural:
Sentences directly translated from another language can sound strange or awkward to a French speaker. This can make it harder for them to understand you.
How to adapt and think in French?
1️⃣ Learn French idiomatic expressions 🗣️:
Don’t just translate what you know. Familiarize yourself with typical French expressions to avoid “false friends” and awkward phrasing.
2️⃣ Immerse yourself in the language 🌍:
Surround yourself with French as much as possible: listen to podcasts, watch series, read articles. The more you immerse yourself, the more natural the language will feel to you.
3️⃣ Practice without seeking perfection 🎯:
Force yourself to speak in French, even if you hesitate or make mistakes. The more you practice, the more your brain will adapt to forming sentences directly in French, without relying on your native language.
4️⃣ Use simple and direct sentences ✂️:
Instead of trying to translate complex sentences, start with short and clear ones. This will allow you to focus on vocabulary and pronunciation without getting lost in complicated structures.
5️⃣ Join guided conversations 🤝:
With programs like Ohlala French Coffee, you can practice in a supportive environment where you’re guided to form sentences in French, without reverting to your native language. Personalized corrections will help you build the right habits.
🎁 Bonus Tip: Change your daily language
Set your phone, computer, or even your favorite apps to French. This will push you to think in the language and break away from your native language habits.
To speak natural and fluent French, you need to learn to let go of your native language. It’s not easy at first, but with practice and the right methods, you’ll find that your brain adapts quickly. So, try forming your sentences directly in French, even if they’re not perfect. It’s by stepping out of your comfort zone that you’ll make the biggest progress.
❌ Error #5: You don’t do enough shadowing exercises
👉 What is shadowing?
Shadowing is an ultra-effective learning technique where you listen to a native speaker and repeat immediately after, imitating their rhythm, intonation, and pronunciation. Imagine you’re the shadow of the person speaking: your goal is to reproduce what they say, almost like an echo.
💡 What are the benefits of shadowing?
1️⃣ Improve your pronunciation:
By repeating after a native speaker, you learn to pronounce words correctly, with the natural accent and intonation of French.
2️⃣ Boost your fluency:
Shadowing helps you get used to speaking quickly and spontaneously, without overthinking every word. This brings you closer to the fluency you dream of.
3️⃣ Strengthen your auditory memory:
By repeating regularly, you remember words, expressions, and grammar structures better. It’s like “programming” your brain to think in French.
4️⃣ Train your intonation:
French has a particular rhythm and specific sounds. With shadowing, you practice adopting the right tone, making your speech more natural and pleasant to hear.
🚀 How to practice shadowing effectively?
1️⃣ Choose content suited to your level 🎯:
Start with simple sentences and gradually increase the difficulty. If you’re a beginner, don’t start with an ultra-fast podcast.
2️⃣ Listen carefully before repeating 🎧:
Listen to the sentence several times before starting. Focus on the sounds, rhythm, and pauses.
3️⃣ Imitate as much as possible 🗣️:
Try to reproduce the speaker’s voice exactly. Don’t hesitate to exaggerate a little at first to capture the intonation.
4️⃣ Practice regularly 🕒:
Dedicate 5 to 10 minutes a day to shadowing. Consistency is key to seeing results.
🎁 My shadowing exercise playlist
To help you practice easily, I’ve created a playlist of shadowing exercises specially designed for French learners. You’ll find sentences suited to your level, with clear recordings to practice with.
Shadowing is one of the fastest and most effective ways to improve your pronunciation and fluency in French. So, if you haven’t tried it yet, now’s the time to start! With a little daily practice, you’ll notice a huge difference in how you speak.
That’s it, we’ve covered the 5 mistakes to avoid to speak French well. Now it’s your turn! Remember that progress is a mix of effort, consistency, and enjoyment.
And if you want to put all this into practice in a supportive and motivating environment, I invite you to try Ohlala French Coffee. It’s the perfect way to practice your French with small groups, native teachers, and personalized corrections. And the good news? You can enjoy 7 days for free, with no commitment.
